There’s a line from The Shawshank Redemption that often comes to mind when I think of my dear friend Don Roper: “I have to remind myself that some birds aren’t meant to be caged. Their feathers are just too bright. And when they fly away, the part of you that knows it was a sin to lock them up does rejoice. Still, the place you live in is that much more drab and empty that they’re gone. I guess I just miss my friend.”
Don was one of those rare people whose light shined brightly wherever he went. I have countless memories of him, but one that stands out is the day he shared his testimony at the Heartland Recovery Program.
Don had a long and impactful career as a warden at Potosi Correctional Center in Missouri. During his testimony, he recounted a powerful story about a man on death row. Just minutes before his execution, Don asked the man if he had any final words. His response was unforgettable: “Pray for the other inmates because some of them don’t know Jesus.”
This man, who had committed three homicides, could have said anything in his final moments. Yet, by God’s grace, his last words were a prayer for others to find salvation in Christ. As Don told this story, he wept—not just for the man’s transformation, but for the incredible power of God’s grace to save even those we might consider beyond redemption.
Don’s life was a testament to that same grace. He was a faithful servant who loved God and loved people. Every Thursday, Don would come to the Heartland Men’s Recovery Program to attend PowerBarn, our men’s service. He wasn’t just a visitor—he was a mentor, a friend, and a constant source of encouragement for the residents. His desire to serve was rooted in his love for Jesus, and he poured that love into everyone he met.
I count myself incredibly blessed to have known Don Roper. His friendship, faith, and compassion left an indelible mark on my life and on the lives of so many at Heartland. While I miss him deeply, I rejoice in knowing that his legacy of faith continues to inspire us all.
Scott Miller
HMRP Assistant Director